Why are you rendering it out of AE?
I would suggest using Adobe Media Encoder to do your final encode. It's got better options (especially for compressing into stuff like h.264 since it can do multipass encoding which AE can't do).
If you lower the data rate to about 2 Mbps, you should have a file less than 2 Gb and it will still look alright in 720.
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