When i add a file to the render queue it will not let me pick a destination and the render queue looks really wierd. If you can see the picture below that is the render queue so if you can help me please i really need to learn After Effects and cant do that if it doesnt work.
OK, it looks like you have twirled down your render options. See the little triangles at the very left? Click on the downwards-pointing ones to 'twirl' everything back up and you should see the default view.