It's been a while since I last visited here. I have lately had this problem with Vray and maya that whenever I create any kind of VRay light there is no handle for it. If I create Maya light there is a visible handle that I can click and select the light, but with Vray lights there is none. I can marquee select those vray lights if I know where they are, but when I need a precise placement for those, it's quite impossible.
So far I havent figured out why those has been disappeared. There is nothing turned off in show menu