Considering all your experience, I'd suggest that better than reading books, do it. You might look at my post on focal lengths,
http://forums.creativecow.net/readpost/54/861120, but after that start experimenting yourself.
You ask, "For example, why does a videographer choose to shoot a really wide angle shot in a scene from below eye level versus above eye level. Or, why is the shot a shallow depth of field with only the person in focus and not the background. and Why does the videographer use a slow tracking shot of the front of a building using a slider instead of a stack shot."
The post on focal lengths partly answers your question. Add to the effect of wide angles, what happens when you do lower the camera below eye level. (Look at the keystone effect on verticals. Look at how figures are ?more imposing as they loon over (or up to) the camera.) As for isolating the subject, what does that do to the viewer's eye? (It makes us focus on the subject vs. the background.)
Everything we do with lenses and movement is around: where do we want to direct the viewers' eyes? Some directors, like Michael Mann, like very deep focus shots, so that everything is sharp -- for him the surround is a key part of the story and he wants you to look at it. Others, such as Polanski, prefer isolating figures. There is no one way to shoot anything. That may be frustrating you right now, but it's also a license to go for broke in which ever direction you wish. Over time, you will probably too develop a style that works for you, and, hopefully, for your audiences as well.
So write or find a very short story and start experimenting.
Break a leg!
Rick Wise
Cinematographer
San Francisco Bay Area
http://www.RickWiseDP.com