These are pads:
http://www.bhphotovideo.com/c/product/68600-REG/Shure_A15AS_A15AS_In_Line_A...
http://www.bhphotovideo.com/c/product/68085-REG/Audio_Technica_AT8202_AT820...
From a soundboard line level out to mike level you would most likely need -40. But it varies and if you can't truly pre amp the signal it's harder.
With in-line xlr pads you connect one xlr cable to the pad and then another on the other end of the pad to your cam. However going out a headphone port ... not sure how usable that is or what you would need. Headphone ports are variable line level signals (I think is what they call them). They tend to have really cheap amps to power headphones. I know people have recorded this signal but I doubt there is any set standard for it. Wouldn't that also leave the soundboard operators without their headphones?
If they do not have an extra output you might look at the PA speakers that they are connecting to ... there might be a pass through. But the day of the event is cutting it close unless you have a bunch of problem solvers and audio experience. Like I said I solve a lot of these problems by taking a signal to a field mixer and working from there. A sound devices 302 mixer
http://www.bhphotovideo.com/c/product/292980-REG/Sound_Devices_302_302_Port...
Will give you a ton of control and improve your audio capture. It is an incredible deal for $1300. It will outlast your camera for sure.
I would not bother capturing audio that you know is clipping or sounds distorted. Good luck tonight and think seriously about adding to your audio capabilities. It really is half of what you do and by far the hardest to get right.
Next time take some pictures of the soundboard or whatever you are dealing with. Or try to get the user manual for it. And then ask what you need to use it with your cam.
In a pinch you can set your mike on a mike stand and aim it at the house speakers. This will not give you good sound but will capture the feel of the live event. Be sure to set your levels so as not to clip.
It is very difficult to capture good audio during an event where the emphasis is the live audience and not the video recording.
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