I took a quick crack at this to see what I could do.
I've found that curves are particularly useful for this kind of faded-photo situation, since the underlying problem is that you've lost most of the cyan dye from the print.
After some playing around I decided (with no real knowledge) that the guy on the left was wearing bluejeans, and the guy on the right was wearing gray slacks of some sort. So I started in the Color Finesse Full UI and selected the Curves tab. I clicked the gray point (middle) eyedropper in the lower left of the controls, then I clicked on a "middle gray" portion of the right-hand guy's pants. I chose his right (your left) leg.
The results were a definite improvement, but looked a small bit too green for my taste. So I grabbed the point in the green curve that Color Finesse inserted and dragged it slightly to the right to reduce the green in the shadows.
It looked better, but a bit too contrasty, so I clicked the Master curve and dragged a point slightly to the left to lighten the shadows and reduce the contrast.
This took a lot less time to do than to read. The results, along with my curve settings are in this screenshot:
http://www.synthetic-ap.com/images/ex_difficult_color_rbc.jpg
There are a lot of other ways to attack this problem, and this isn't perfect. But the skin tones are reasonable which is the most important thing.
As for your original questions:
1) The WFM is there as a reference to let you know when things are starting to clip in the highlights and shadows and to see when there is an imbalance between the channels. My advice is to start off color correcting by eye, but making note of what the WFM looks like. Eventually you'll learn the relationships enough that you can do the inverse: correct by WFM and like the resulting image. Don't obsess about the WFM.
2) The VS is, again, just a reference tool. If you like the results visually, it doesn't matter what the VS looks like. But if the results look "off" and you can't figure out why, the VS can often show the direction you need to correct in. If the VS leans towards cyan and you don't like the cyan cast, then you can, for example, use the Hue Offset wheels in the HSL tab to drag the colors away from cyan to correct. You'll immediately see the VS display move in the same direction.
3) It depends. If the image is almost right, then the common advice is to set the levels first, then tweak the color to get the look you want. But when faced with an image like your photo, it's often best to try to cancel the color distortion first, and then tweak the levels once it's "close" to correct.
Hope that helps. A lot of learning color correction is just playing around to understand how the controls interact. It can be frustrating at first, but you'll soon learn to evaluate an image and know how to attack the problem.
Bob Currier
Synthetic Aperture