hi susan,
first of all - mac blu-ray-player wont play menus. there´s only one (tracing-tool) that could display menus - blustreak tracer from rivergate software.
http://rivergatesoftware.com/blustreaktracer
it could extend your programming, but you need to know movie-object-scripting (that´s the language behind your BD, while you are drag-and-drop within encore).
another question would be: how did you burn your BD? from within encore or on a seperate way?!
if you burned it using apple finder you´ll get the wrong media-format. BD-spec is UDF2.5 (universal disk format), so you need to burn it using encore or toast with the HD-extention.
cheers
danny