You really need to figure out why you can't export back to tape, because that is the best method to send files to anyone who has a way to get the footage off of the tape.
Or, you can send footage to another PC user by exporting to MPEG2 Blu-ray using 25Mbps as your data rate. Basically, that setting in the Adobe Media Encoder is the same as HDV. The audio is a separate file unless you have Surcode though.
Steven
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