Last Ditch effort...

Hello to all...
I have left posts many times in the Adobe flash forum, but I never received an answer. I've tried video co-pilot and also hulu.com and a few other video intense sites. Here's what I am looking for:
I am launching a new site middle of next week I want to use adobe encoder and flash. I have tried many different settings and I would like to know if there is one that can handle what I am trying to do. I am trying to emulate www.hulu.com and get some good quality video placed on my site which will be updated every week. I have used my Canon XL 2 at 30p to shoot us and the quality is just not that good. I tried many different settings and nothing seems to give me the result I see on other sites. I am thinking of going to my sony hdr-fx1 and shooting everything in HDV instead and hope to get a better result. The only problem I see is that on the settings for adobe encoder, they don't have an hdv 1080i setting. Will the video have problems because of that or will it work ok if I leave the export settings at normal?

Please give me guidance, this site will make or break me!

Chuck